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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON UNDERSTANDING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE

The Nigerian federal law, Violence Against persons (prohibition) Act (VAPP) which was passed to address violence against women defines domestic violence as any act perpetrated on any person in a domestic relationship where such act causes harm or may cause imminent harm to the safety, and health, or well-being of any person.

The forms of domestic violence according to VAPP Act include physical abuse, sexual abuse, emotional, verbal and psychological abuse, intimidation, economic abuse, sexual harassment, forceful eviction from a person’s home except on court order, stalking, damage to property, isolation from family and friends, abandonment of children, spouse and other persons, depriving a person of his or her liberty, harmful widowhood practices, harmful traditional practices, spousal battery and others.

Domestic violence is a global problem that has been condemned internationally and nationally through the legal instruments. It is also recognized as a human rights violation. Domestic violence can be suffered by both genders, however, women are at a higher risk of which is more prevalent in Nigeria today.

The Guardian Nigeria on the 27th of February 2021, reported that cases of domestic violence are on the high, especially the spousal battery. According to the report, at least once a week, there is a case of a man beating, maiming or killing his wife, and in some very rare cases, a woman dealing with her husband in like manner.

It is applauding to know that Nigerians in recent times have been able to start a movement on social media calling our pepetrators of domestic violence and encouraging victims to speak up and take actions. This movement has also made victims and surveyors come out to share their stories.

Cases of domestic violence can be highly mitigated if they are not treated as family affairs. Whereas anyone can report cases with evidence, and pepetrators be made to stand a trial against the state. The society, culture and religion must encourage victims of domestic violence to speak up and seek justice.

Speak Wednesday is an initiative of Centre for Family Health Initiative to address issues around gender based violence and gender bias. Join us every Wednesday for more episodes on all our social media platforms.

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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON IMPACT OF GBV ON WOMEN’S MENTAL HEALTH

Impact of GBV on Women’s Mental Healt
The Nigerian federal law, Violence Against Persons (Prohibition) Act VAAP, defines domestic violence as any act perpetrated on any person in a domestic relationship where such action causes harm or may cause imminent harm to the safety, health, or well-being of any person.
Gender-based violence (GBV) has far-reaching and devastating effects on women’s mental health. It encompasses a range of harmful behaviours directed at individuals based on their gender. It includes physical, sexual, emotional, and economic abuse. Survivors of GBV often face significant psychological challenges as a result of their experiences.
Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD): Many survivors of GBV develop symptoms of PTSD. This can include flashbacks, intrusive thoughts, nightmares, and severe anxiety. The trauma from the experience can be so overwhelming that it disrupts daily life and functioning.
Depression and Anxiety Disorders: The chronic stress and fear associated with GBV can lead to the development of depression and various anxiety disorders. Women may experience feelings of hopelessness, sadness, and an overwhelming sense of dread. They may also struggle with feelings of worthlessness or guilt.
Dissociation and Depersonalization: Some survivors may experience a disconnection from their own bodies or a feeling of being detached from reality. This can be a coping method for the intense mental and bodily suffering brought on by the violence.
Self-Harm and Suicidal Thoughts: The emotional pain and distress caused by GBV can lead to self-destructive behaviours, including self-harm and suicidal ideation.
Substance Abuse: Many survivors turn to drugs or alcohol as a way to cope with the trauma they’ve experienced. Substance abuse can provide temporary relief from emotional pain, but it often leads to further physical and mental health issues.
Impact on Parenting and Relationships: For survivors who are parents, the trauma from GBV can affect their ability to parent effectively. It may also strain relationships with their children and other family members.
Negative Impact on Work and Education: The mental health consequences of GBV can spill over into various aspects of a survivor’s life, including their ability to perform at work or in educational settings. Financial instability and a reduced quality of life may result from this.
Re-victimization: Survivors of GBV may be at higher risk of experiencing further violence or abuse, as the psychological effects of trauma can make it more challenging to recognize and avoid potentially dangerous situations.
Recognising the severe impact of GBV on women’s mental health and providing adequate assistance and resources are critical. Organizations like the World Health Organisation (WHO) and UN Women emphasize the necessity of giving survivors complete treatment, which includes mental health services, therapy, and access to safe spaces.
Raising awareness, challenging societal norms, and enacting legislation to prevent and respond to GBV are critical to lowering the occurrence of GBV against women and minimizing its destructive impact on their mental health.

REFERENCE:
1. Kim, Stefani. “Phonak Launches NaíDa Marvel (M).” The Hearing Review (Online), vol., no., 2020, p. n/a.
2. UN Women https://www.unwomen.org/
3. Committee on the Elimination of Discrimination against Women (CEDAW) https://www.ohchr.org/en/hrbodies/cedaw/pages/cedawindex.aspx

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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON The Impact of GENDER BASED VIOLENCE ON WOMEN’S ECONOMIC OPPORTUNITIES

Gender-based violence (GBV) is the most prevalent yet least apparent human rights violation in the world, according to UNICEF. It involves impairment to a person’s bodily, sexual, mental, or financial health brought on by socially accepted gender power disparities. Threats of violence, coercion, and deprivation of public or private liberty are also included.
The profound repercussions of GBV on women’s economic opportunities are broad and substantial, as it is predominantly directed at women.
GBV inflicts direct harm on women’s economic stability. WHO reports highlight that women experiencing GBV often encounter challenges maintaining consistent employment due to absenteeism, reduced productivity, and job instability (WHO, 2013). This leads to a palpable decrease in income, leaving them financially vulnerable. The economic ramifications of GBV are enduring. Women who experience violence may face challenges in building a stable career, accumulating savings, and planning for retirement.
According to UN Women, GBV is a formidable barrier to women’s access to education and vocational training. Fear of violence or harassment may deter them from pursuing educational and skill-building opportunities, curtailing their capacity to attain qualifications essential for higher-paying occupations.

Furthermore, the fear of GBV can discourage women from venturing into entrepreneurship. This is corroborated by UN Women, highlighting that women may hesitate to seek loans, network, or engage in public activities necessary for entrepreneurial success (UN Women, 2019).

GBV is a significant hindrance to women’s economic empowerment and equality. Combating GBV and its economic effects needs comprehensive solutions that include legal reforms, social support systems, education, and awareness campaigns. By fostering violence-free settings, society can enable women to fully participate in economic opportunities, contributing to developing communities and nations.
Speak Wednesday is an initiative of CFHI to address issues around gender-based violence and gender bias.
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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON MEN AS ALLIES IN COMBATTING GENDER BIAS

Gender bias is a universal problem that cuts across national boundaries and affects women from all areas of life. It has far-reaching effects, perpetuating inequality and impeding efforts to create a society that is inclusive and just.

The UN Secretary-General António Guterres has urged men and boys to be active agents of change, stating, “Gender equality is a human rights issue, but it is also in all our interests: men and boys, women and girls.”

UN initiatives like HeForShe aim to mobilize men and boys as advocates for gender equality, encouraging them to challenge harmful stereotypes and support women’s empowerment. By engaging men in the conversation, the UN recognizes that achieving true equality requires a collective effort.

Engaging men and boys as allies in combatting gender bias and addressing gender-based violence (GBV) is crucial for creating a more inclusive and equitable society. This can be achieved through;
• Education and Awareness
• Challenging Harmful Norms and Stereotypes
• Fostering Empathy and Compassion
• Positive male Role Models
• Active Bystander Intervention
• Promoting Healthy Relationships
• Parenting and Mentorship
• Addressing Toxic Masculinity
• Advocacy and Policy Changes:

Addressing gender bias is a collective effort that requires the active participation of individuals of all genders. Men, as allies, play an important part in this endeavour. Men can make a vital contribution to developing a more inclusive and equitable society for all by comprehending the far-reaching effects of gender bias and taking aggressive actions to confront and deconstruct it. Collaboration between men and women in this fight is critical for achieving a future free of gender bias.

Over the years, through the Gender Norms program for adolescents, CFHI creates awareness in communities and educate young boys on how to develop healthy relationships, impacts of harmful gender norms, and importance of gender equality. The intervention is an important step towards creating a more inclusive and equitable society for all.

Speak Wednesday is an initiative of CFHI to address issues around gender-based violence and gender bias.

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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON GBV AND INTIMATE PARTNER VIOLENCE (IPV)

In the shadows of many households worldwide, a silent but pervasive threat looms large: Gender-Based Violence (GBV), particularly in the form of Intimate Partner Violence (IPV). GBV is a deeply concerning issue that affects individuals regardless of age, race, or socioeconomic background, but IPV specifically targets intimate relationships. It’s crucial to shed light on this issue, raise awareness, and work collectively to eradicate it from our society.

IPV refers to any behavior within an intimate relationship that causes physical, psychological, or sexual harm to a partner. It encompasses acts of physical violence, emotional abuse, coercive control, and sexual assault. IPV knows no boundaries; it affects people of all genders and sexual orientations.

One of the most alarming aspects of IPV is its hidden nature. Victims often suffer in silence, fearing stigma, retaliation, or a lack of support. This silence can perpetuate the cycle of abuse, making it crucial to create an environment where survivors feel safe to come forward and seek help.

The consequences of IPV are profound. Beyond physical injuries, survivors often grapple with long-term mental health issues, such as depression, anxiety, and post-traumatic stress disorder. The trauma experienced can affect not only the survivor but also children who witness the abuse, perpetuating a cycle of violence.
Breaking the cycle of IPV requires a multi-faceted approach. It begins with education and awareness. We must teach individuals about healthy relationships, consent, and the signs of abuse. Providing safe spaces and resources for survivors to seek help is equally crucial. Support from friends, family, and professionals can empower survivors to leave abusive relationships and heal.

Laws and policies that protect survivors and hold perpetrators accountable play a vital role in combatting IPV. Advocacy groups and organizations work tirelessly to raise awareness, push for legal reforms, and provide resources for survivors. Supporting these initiatives and being an ally to survivors is essential in the fight against IPV.

Intimate Partner Violence is a grave concern that affects countless lives. It thrives in silence and secrecy, making it our collective responsibility to break that silence, support survivors, and work toward a world where love and respect flourish in all relationships. By understanding the dynamics of IPV, raising awareness, and advocating for change, we can strive to eliminate this hidden epidemic and ensure that everyone can live free from the fear of violence in their most intimate relationships.

Speak Wednesday is an initiative of CFHI to address issues around gender-based violence and gender bias.

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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON RAPE CULTURE

Rape culture is a complex and pervasive societal issue that encompasses attitudes, beliefs, and behaviors that normalize or trivialize sexual assault and harassment. It is important to understand that rape culture can vary in intensity and prevalence across different cultures and communities. Some key elements and characteristics of rape culture include:

Victim-Blaming: This occurs when the survivor of sexual assault is held partially or fully responsible for the incident. Questions like, “What were they wearing?” or “Were they drinking?” contribute to victim-blaming.

Perpetrator Excuses: Rape culture often involves minimizing or excusing the actions of perpetrators. Phrases like “boys will be boys” or “he didn’t mean it” can downplay the seriousness of sexual assault.

Sexual Objectification: Treating individuals as objects for sexual gratification rather than as autonomous beings with their own desires and boundaries is a harmful aspect of rape culture. This is evident in advertising, media, and everyday interactions.

Institutional Failures: Rape culture can be perpetuated when institutions such as law enforcement, schools, or workplaces fail to take sexual assault reports seriously or protect survivors adequately.

Jokes and Language: The use of rape jokes or derogatory language that trivializes sexual assault contributes to a culture where such behavior is normalized.

Lack of Consent Education: Inadequate education about consent and healthy sexual relationships can contribute to misunderstandings and blurred boundaries.

Silencing Survivors: When survivors are discouraged from speaking out or reporting their experiences due to fear, shame, or disbelief, it perpetuates a culture of silence.

Addressing rape culture requires a collective effort to challenge and change these attitudes and behaviors. Education, awareness campaigns, supportive policies, and legal reforms are essential steps in combating rape culture and promoting a culture of consent, respect, and gender equality. It is crucial to create an environment where survivors are supported and perpetrators are held accountable for their actions.

Speak Wednesday is an initiative of CFHI to address issues around gender-based violence and gender bias.
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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON EFFECTS OF GENDER-BASED VIOLENCE (GBV) ON REPRODUCTIVE HEALTH

Gender-Based Violence (GBV) is a pervasive human rights violation that affects millions of individuals worldwide, with significant and far-reaching consequences. Among its numerous adverse effects, GBV has a profound impact on reproductive health, causing physical, psychological, and social harm to survivors. Understanding these effects is crucial for addressing the broader issue of GBV and safeguarding the reproductive health and rights of those affected. Here, we explore the various ways in which GBV can affect reproductive health:

1. Physical Injuries and Complications: Physical violence, such as sexual assault or intimate partner violence, can lead to immediate injuries, including genital trauma. These injuries can result in long-term complications, such as chronic pain, sexually transmitted infections (STIs), and even infertility in some cases. Survivors may also be at a higher risk of unwanted pregnancies due to a lack of control over contraceptive choices.

2. Sexual and Reproductive Coercion: GBV often involves reproductive control, where survivors are coerced into unwanted pregnancies or abortions. Perpetrators may sabotage contraception methods or force survivors into sexual acts without their consent. This coercion can lead to unwanted pregnancies, unsafe abortions, and emotional distress.

3. Psychological Trauma: Survivors of GBV commonly experience psychological trauma, which can have a profound impact on their reproductive health. Post-Traumatic Stress Disorder (PTSD), depression, anxiety, and other mental health conditions can disrupt normal reproductive functioning, affecting menstrual cycles and sexual health.

4. Substance Abuse: Some survivors turn to substance abuse as a coping mechanism to deal with the psychological and emotional trauma caused by GBV. Substance abuse can result in risky sexual behaviors, including unprotected sex, which increases the risk of STIs and unintended pregnancies.

5. Delayed or Avoided Healthcare: Stigma, shame, and fear often prevent survivors from seeking timely medical care and support. Delayed or avoided healthcare can result in untreated injuries, untreated STIs, and complications during pregnancy or childbirth.

6. Reproductive Health Inequities: GBV disproportionately affects marginalized and vulnerable populations, exacerbating existing health inequities. Survivors who face additional layers of discrimination based on factors like race, ethnicity, socioeconomic status, or sexual orientation may encounter further challenges in accessing appropriate reproductive healthcare.

7. Impact on Mother-Child Relationships: If GBV occurs during pregnancy, it can have detrimental effects on both the mother and the developing foetus. Violence during pregnancy is associated with adverse birth outcomes, such as low birth weight and preterm birth. Furthermore, the psychological stress experienced by pregnant survivors can affect the bond between mother and child.

8. Barriers to Family Planning: Survivors of GBV may encounter obstacles to accessing family planning services. They may lack autonomy in making decisions about contraception or face difficulties in negotiating safe sex practices with their partners, resulting in increased risks of unintended pregnancies.

Addressing the effects of GBV on reproductive health requires a comprehensive approach. Efforts should include:

– Awareness and Education: Promoting awareness about GBV and its consequences on reproductive health to encourage survivors to seek help and support.

– Healthcare Services: Ensuring that healthcare providers are trained to recognize and respond to GBV, offering sensitive and confidential care to survivors.

– Counseling and Mental Health Support: Providing survivors with access to mental health services to address trauma and psychological distress.

– Prevention and Advocacy: Implementing policies and programs aimed at preventing GBV and advocating for gender equality.

Speak Wednesday is an initiative of CFHI to address issues around gender-based violence and gender bias.
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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON GENDER INEQUALITY: THE TOLL ON WOMEN AND SOCIETY

Gender inequality is a pervasive issue that has plagued societies for centuries. While considerable progress has been made in recent years to address this problem, it continues to exert a profound toll on women and society at large. This article explores the multifaceted impacts of gender inequality, shedding light on the challenges faced by women and the broader repercussions for society.

1. Economic Disparities
One of the most evident consequences of gender inequality is economic disparity. Women often earn less than their male counterparts for equivalent work, leading to a persistent gender pay gap. This disparity not only affects women’s financial independence but also contributes to a cycle of poverty that can be passed down through generations.

2. Limited Educational Opportunities
In many parts of the world, gender inequality restricts women’s access to education. This lack of educational opportunities hampers their personal growth and economic prospects. Moreover, when women are denied access to education, society as a whole miss out on their potential contributions to various fields.
3. Unequal Representation in Leadership
Gender inequality is glaringly evident in the underrepresentation of women in leadership positions. Whether in politics, business, or academia, women continue to face barriers that hinder their ascent to influential roles. This imbalance deprives society of diverse perspectives and innovative solutions that women leaders can bring.

4. Health and Healthcare Disparities
Women often face disparities in healthcare access and quality, with some countries lacking comprehensive reproductive health services and family planning options. This inequity can lead to adverse health outcomes for women and their families. Furthermore, gender-based violence and discrimination can have severe mental and physical health consequences for women.

5. Unpaid Domestic Labour
Women disproportionately shoulder the burden of unpaid domestic labour, including childcare and household chores. This leaves them with less time and energy to pursue personal and professional aspirations. Society misses out on their full potential when this unpaid labour goes unrecognized and unvalued.

6. Gender-Based Violence
Gender inequality is closely linked to gender-based violence, which includes physical, sexual, and emotional abuse. The prevalence of such violence affects not only individual women but also disrupts social cohesion and contributes to a culture of fear and mistrust.

7. Hindrance to Social Progress
Gender inequality poses a significant hindrance to overall social progress. When half of the population is systematically marginalized and denied equal opportunities, society as a whole cannot reach its full potential. Gender equality is a fundamental human right and a cornerstone of a just and prosperous society.

8. The Path to Gender Equality
Efforts to address gender inequality must involve individuals, communities, governments, and institutions working together. Key steps include:

– Implementing and enforcing equal pay policies
– Promoting education and educational access for girls and women
– Encouraging women’s participation in leadership roles
– Providing comprehensive healthcare services, including reproductive health
– Recognizing and valuing unpaid domestic labour
– Combatting gender-based violence through legislation and awareness campaigns

Gender inequality takes a toll on both women and society. It hampers individual potential, perpetuates economic disparities, and fosters social injustice. Achieving gender equality is not just a moral imperative; it is essential for building a fair, prosperous, and progressive society. It is the responsibility of all individuals and institutions to work tirelessly towards a future where gender inequality is eradicated, and the full potential of all members of society can be realized.

Speak Wednesday is an initiative of CFHI to address issues around gender-based violence and gender bias.

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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON EFFECT OF WORKPLACE VIOLENCE AGAINST WOMEN

A lot of female workers are forced to work in intimidating, hostile or humiliating environment where they are often asked for sexual favors, exposed to inappropriate jokes, insinuations and physical contact that can amount to assault making a work environment uncomfortable for them. According to research, between 40 and 50 percent of women experience unwanted sexual advances, physical contact or other forms of sexual harassment at work.

In today’s edition of Speak Wednesday, we retell the story of one of our beneficiaries, Grace (not her real name). Grace, an orphan, who was discovered by one of our community volunteers in Sabon Lugbe community, was a victim of workplace violence. She worked as a live-in house help for a certain family in the community, but was occasionally sexually abused by her boss. Although she endured for a while out of desperation to keep her job (she was the bread winner of the home), she had to leave because it started affecting her mental health and productivity. Few months later, she got a job in a beer parlour where she was also preyed upon sexually by both the customers and the owner of the business.

When CFHI was made aware of her sad experience, she was immediately enrolled into skills acquisition training and given startup kits for her business through IHVN project. Currently, she is successfully running her tailoring business in the community.

Gender based violence in the workplace is a major hindrance to women’s economic empowerment, autonomy and independence, however, this can be tackled if there is a collective agreement by major stakeholders on policies to prevent and address GBV in the workplace.

Thank you for joining today’s Speak Wednesday on workplace violence. Join us every Wednesday for more episodes as we work together to end all forms of violence against women and girls.

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SPEAK WEDNESDAY ON EFFECTS OF GENDER DISCRIMINATION ON WOMEN’S FINANCIAL STABILITY

Article 1 of the Universal Declaration of Human Rights provides that all human beings are born free and equal in dignity and rights. However, women experience gender discrimination in both the public and private spheres, which profoundly impacts their life, including their financial stability and status.
The World Bank reports that Nigeria has one of the highest rates of out-of-school girls worldwide. Without adequate education, women’s chances of securing formal employment and escaping low-wage, informal sectors are severely restricted, leaving them vulnerable to financial instability.
Additionally, the gender wage gap still exists despite the Nigerian Labour Act prohibiting wage discrimination based on gender. The World Bank estimates that women in Nigeria make an average of 30% less money than males. The lack of equal pay makes it more difficult for women to save money, invest it, and ensure their financial future.
In Nigeria, there is a sizable gender difference in account ownership, with fewer women than males having access to formal financial services, according to the World Bank’s Global Findex Database.
The bias against women hinders their potential to establish or expand businesses, engage in politics, save finances, and participate in entrepreneurial activities. This, in turn, sustains the vicious cycle of poverty. Additionally, women’s economic empowerment, safety, and autonomy are hindered by gender discrimination, which impacts the country’s GDP and economy.
The World Bank states that achieving gender equality in financial inclusion can help accomplish eight of the 17 United Nations Sustainable Development Goals. This can be achieved through implementing genuine policies and practices promoting gender equality.
By working together to tear down the barriers of gender discrimination in Nigeria, the government, civil society, international organizations, and individuals can change this narrative.
Speak Wednesday is an initiative of CFHI to address issues around gender-based violence and gender bias.
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